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Notes for special needs families
Short, practical articles on the questions parents ask Ilonka most: school meetings, new diagnoses, siblings, and planning for adult life. Plain words, real steps.
School
IEP Meeting Checklist for Parents: Before, During, and After
What to bring, what to ask, and what to do when you get home, in one calm list.
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After a New Diagnosis: First Steps for Parents
The first weeks feel like a flood. Here is how to take it one true step at a time.
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Transition Planning at 14, 16, and 18: What Changes
What to start at 14, what must be in place by 16, and what changes at 18.
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Siblings Need a Plan Too
Brothers and sisters often wait quietly. Small, deliberate steps help them feel seen.
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Ilonka Knowlton is a Certified Life Coach and lead special education teacher in Rogers, Arkansas, with more than 20 years guiding students, families, and staff in Arkansas, London, and South Africa. Meet Ilonka or see coaching fees.
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